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Dec. 29, 2023

Why Narcissist's Need Control

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Dec. 29, 2023

Love, ADHD Episode 14 - "ADHD Diagnosis: The Cause or the Context?

Julie goes solo in this episode and reflects on the role of labels, particularly ADHD, and how to understand them better. She emphasizes viewing ADHD as a context, not a cause for certain behaviors. She shares personal experiences and thoughts about emotional immaturity, the development of narcissistic tendencies, and self-compassion.…

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Dec. 28, 2023

Act In Alignment w/ How You See Yourself

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Dec. 24, 2023

The Princess LITERALLY Has a "Crown" of Broccoli for Hair

In episode 13 of "Love, ADHD" Julie has the sudden realization about a missed opportunity to use the term 'crown of broccoli' in a children's book about a princess with broccoli hair.

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Dec. 24, 2023

ADHD in Disguise Part 2 - 'Broccolipunzle' is Back! - Love, ADHD Episode 13

Julie and Tony pick up where last week’s episode left off and continue their discussion of the parallels between Julie's children's book, 'Broccolipunzle,' and elements of ADHD. They focus on emotional acceptance, especially regarding rejection sensitivity specific to ADHD. Tony deep-dives into ADHD, neurology, and society's discomfort with negative emotions,…

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Dec. 24, 2023

24 Life Lessons From 24 Years: Mackie’s Birthday Special Episode

In this special bonus episode of The Virtual Couch, Tony shares the latest episode of “The Mind, The Mirror and Me,” a podcast he co-hosts with his daughter Mackie Overbay. Mackie shares 24 life lessons she's learned in her 24 years of life in honor of her birthday (today! Wish…

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Dec. 21, 2023

Still Wondering if YOU Are the Narcissist/Did They Finally “Get it?” - Introducing “Shelf Life”

Episode 101 of Waking Up to Narcissism Podcast with host Tony Overbay, LMFT. “If I’m asking if I’m the narcissist, then Tony says I’m not!” Tony shares that he receives more feedback on this concept than any other from WUTN listeners. But what happens when the narcissist or emotionally immature…

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Dec. 13, 2023

Kate Anthony - "We don't have time to be wasting on trying to beg people to love us!"

Kate Anthony, author of "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage" https://amzn.to/47V1AKe From Episode 100 of Tony Overbay, LMFT's "Waking Up to Narcissism" Podcast: Kate Anthony, Author of “The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage” on Deciphering Divorce, Confronting Decisions, and Embracing Empowerment.

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Dec. 13, 2023

Kate Anthony, Author of “The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage”

Kate Anthony, Author of “The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage” on Deciphering Divorce, Confronting Decisions, and Embracing Empowerment Tony and Kate Anthony, divorce coach and author of “The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage,” (https://amzn.to/47V1AKe) unpack the complex dynamics involved with the decision…

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Dec. 13, 2023

Donnie Crushing the Ball in Slow-Motion - You'll Be Missed!

In loving memory of my uncle, Donald George Overbay Jr. (Donnie), who peacefully passed away last night, December 12, 2023, surrounded by his loved ones, after bravely facing cancer.

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Dec. 13, 2023

From Walking on Eggshells to Standing Ground: Waking Up to Narcissism Questions and Answers Ep 11

Episode 11 of the 'Waking Up The Narcissism' premium QA edition, Tony Overbay, LMFT, discusses the concept of Nonviolent Communication and how it can be applied in interactions with emotionally immature or narcissistic individuals. Tony addresses a listener's question about how to communicate effectively with a narcissistic spouse, focusing on…

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Dec. 8, 2023

ADHD in Disguise? The Curious Case of 'Broccolipunzle'

Julie and Tony discuss the intriguing parallels between Julie's children's book, 'Broccolipunzle,' and elements of ADHD. They explore themes like anticipatory rejection and rejection sensitivity, maintaining a positive outlook on uniqueness and resilience. The hosts also touch on various aspects of ADHD, interpretations of experiences, and the importance of accepting…

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Dec. 8, 2023

Acceptance vs. Forgiveness: Which Harmonizes Healing? Navigating Narcissism and Emotional Immaturity

Forgive and forget. “Can’t we just let the past be in the past and move forward?” To someone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist or an extremely emotionally immature person, these concepts can have a negative impact, adding additional layers of guilt and shame to a situation…

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Dec. 8, 2023

Creating Purpose: You Are Not One Dimensional

In this episode, Mackie and Tony delve into the concept of purpose, discussing how society's expectations and personal pressures often shape how we perceive our life path. They underline the importance of creating rather than finding one's purpose. They explore the need to let purpose be a fluid concept, shifting…

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Dec. 8, 2023

Deciphering Okayness - Your Personal Autonomy Guide

In this episode of The Mind, the Mirror and Me Podcast, Mackie and Tony navigate through topics such as understanding personal limits and preferences and the importance of self-validation. They delve into personal autonomy, emphasizing the individuals' right to make choices that align with their values and desires. The conversation…

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Dec. 7, 2023

Therapist LIVE on Tiktok Now!

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Dec. 5, 2023

What Creates A Cheater?

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Dec. 3, 2023

Can A Child Save Your Marriage?

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Dec. 1, 2023

Ryan Anderson, PhD author of “The Choice to Leave Abuse” on Spiritual Abuse, Epigenetics and Healing

In episode 98 of the 'Waking Up to Narcissism' podcast, Tony Overbay, LMFT, invites guest Ryan Anderson, PhD, an expert in medical family therapy, to discuss emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and overcoming abuse, particularly in the context of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS, Mormon). They stress the…

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Dec. 1, 2023

Understanding ADHD vs Anxiety: Symptoms, Similarities and Differences - An Engaging Conversation

In episode 11 of 'Love ADHD', co-hosts Tony Overbay, LMFT, and Julie Lee welcome special guest Mackey Overbay, Tony's daughter, and his co-host for the podcast "The Mind, The Mirror and Me." The discussion centers around the differences and similarities between ADHD and Anxiety disorders. The talk covers topics such…

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Nov. 30, 2023

Why Do Cheaters Cheat?

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Nov. 28, 2023

Be Nice To Yourself!

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Nov. 27, 2023

Non-Violent Communication: Does It Work?

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Nov. 26, 2023

Nice People Have Boundaries, Too! - The Mind, The Mirror, And Me Podcast Ep 14

In this episode, hosts Mackie and Tony deeply explore the significance of boundaries within relationships. Their conversation intricately weaves personal experiences with psychological insights, unveiling boundaries' pivotal role in fostering healthy interactions. They candidly address the struggle in setting boundaries, discussing the tendency to prioritize others' needs over one's own—a…

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