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Oct. 6, 2024

Narcissistic "Attack Surface" Concept *NEW EPISODE*

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Oct. 4, 2024

Attack Surface in a Narcissistic Relationship

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Oct. 2, 2024

What Is Gray Rocking in a Narcissistic Relationship?

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Oct. 1, 2024

Why Do Brains Stick To Negativity?

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Oct. 1, 2024

Navigating Narcissism: Attack Surfaces & Understanding Emotional Immaturity

Welcome to Episode 121 of Waking Up to Narcissism with host Tony Overbay, LMFT! Have you ever opened up to someone, only to have your vulnerability used against you? In this episode of Waking Up to Narcissism, we introduce the concept of the “attack surface”—that uncomfortable dynamic where emotionally immature…

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Sept. 28, 2024

Motivation Through Differentiation

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Sept. 24, 2024

How Do You Stay Motivated?

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Sept. 23, 2024

You Are Exactly Enough At Any Size *NEW EPISODE*

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Sept. 23, 2024

Therapist & Daughter's Journey with Hashimoto's, Weight Loss, & Self-Love COMEBACK!

Hey everyone! In this episode, we explore the challenges and triumphs of living with Hashimoto's thyroiditis, embracing a healthier lifestyle, and learning to love yourself at every stage. We also discuss the importance of consistency, meditation, and the power of self-worth. Join us as we share personal experiences, insights, and…

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Sept. 21, 2024

Why Do Narcissists Disrespect While Expecting Respect?

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Sept. 20, 2024

How Much Gaslighting Does a Gaslighter Gaslight if a Gaslighter Doesn’t Know They Gaslight? - Part 2

Waking Up to Narcissism Podcast Episode 120 - Have you ever felt like you're losing your grip on reality in a relationship? Does your partner's behavior leave you constantly second-guessing yourself? You might be experiencing gaslighting, a form of emotional manipulation that can shake the very foundations of your self-perception.…

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Sept. 20, 2024

What Is Unaware Gaslighting? *NEW EPISODE*

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Sept. 19, 2024

Is God Disappointed In You?

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Sept. 18, 2024

Is God Disappointed in Me? Confronting Kurt Francom For Leaving Me Out of His Book!

Tony Overbay, LMFT, welcomes Kurt Francom, the executive director and podcast host of Leading Saints ([Leading Saints](https://www.leadingsaints.org)). Kurt's first book, "Is God Disappointed in Me: Removing Shame From the Gospel of Grace," is available on Amazon ([Amazon Link](https://amzn.to/49BYUCk)). In a candid admission, Tony shares his emotionally immature reaction upon discovering…

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Sept. 18, 2024

What Is Defensive Narcissism? *NEW EPISODE*

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Sept. 17, 2024

Why Do I Self-Sabotage Relationships?

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Sept. 16, 2024

What Is True Intimacy in a Relationship? *NEW EPISODE*

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Sept. 16, 2024

Therapist on Sabotaging Relationships, 36 Questions To Fall In Love, & Anxiety Relief LIVE 30

Hey everyone! In this episode, Tony Overbay, a licensed marriage and family therapist, explores the famous 36 questions that lead to love, self-sabotage in relationships, and valuable coping mechanisms for anxiety and grief. His daughters Mackie & Sydney join to also discuss the discomfort of genuine intimacy, self-reflection, and the…

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Sept. 15, 2024

What Is Unconscious Incompetence?

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Sept. 13, 2024

Is Shame Selfish? *NEW EPISODE*

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Sept. 13, 2024

Shame: A Self-Absorbed, Selfish, Uninvited Guest at Your Self-Esteem Party (and How to Get it to Go)

Tony Overbay, LMFT, tackles an emotion we've all felt but rarely discuss: shame. Have you ever wondered why shame feels so personal, so all-consuming? Could it be that shame is actually... selfish? Inspired by a pivotal scene from the Apple TV series 'Presumed Innocent', Tony unravels the tangled web of…

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Sept. 12, 2024

Why Do We Feel Shame?

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Sept. 11, 2024

Our Sense of Self Is From External Validation- Until It's Not

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Sept. 9, 2024

It Takes Courage to Truly Know Yourself & Your Partner *NEW EPISODE*

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