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Sept. 7, 2024

Love vs. Control: Protecting Sense of Self in a Relationship

Love vs. Control: Protecting Sense of Self in a Relationship

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Sept. 6, 2024

Cognitive Dissonance in 'It Ends With Us' with Therapist *NEW EPISODE*

Cognitive Dissonance in 'It Ends With Us' with Therapist *NEW EPISODE*

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Sept. 6, 2024

Therapist on Cognitive Dissonance in 'It Ends With Us' Controversy, Narcissism & Growth LIVE 28

Therapist on Cognitive Dissonance in 'It Ends With Us' Controversy, Narcissism & Growth LIVE 28

Hey everyone! In this Live episode, I, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and my daughter answer your questions and discuss the recent controversy surrounding the movie/novel 'This Ends With Us' and its portrayal of DV. We'll also discuss the elements of cognitive dissonance, love bombing, trauma bonding, and the…

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Sept. 5, 2024

Differentiation Doesn't Mean Everything Is About You

Differentiation Doesn't Mean Everything Is About You

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Sept. 3, 2024

Emotional Survival Tips: Responding to Crisis in Narcissistic Relationships

Emotional Survival Tips: Responding to Crisis in Narcissistic Relationships

Episode 118 of the "Waking Up to Narcissism" podcast. Tony Overbay, LMFT, delivers an emergency bonus episode addressing a heartfelt listener email. The episode discusses cognitive dissonance, gaslighting, emotional abuse, scapegoating, and trauma bonding often experienced in relationships with narcissists. Tony breaks down the listener's experiences, offering insight into their…

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Sept. 2, 2024

You Have No Bad Habits: Addiction Coach Craig in *NEW EPISODE*

You Have No Bad Habits: Addiction Coach Craig in *NEW EPISODE*

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Sept. 2, 2024

You Have No Bad Parts: Therapist & Addiction Coach Talk IFS Healing, Codependency & Gaslighting LIVE

You Have No Bad Parts: Therapist & Addiction Coach Talk IFS Healing, Codependency & Gaslighting LIVE

LMFT Tony Overbay and Addiction Coach Craig are going LIVE on @virtualcouch TikTok to answer any of your questions! In this episode, we discussed various psychological and emotional topics, from personal experiences with addiction and recovery to deep dives into concepts like gaslighting, narcissistic traits, internal family systems therapy, and…

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Sept. 1, 2024

Differentiated Relationship Concepts

Differentiated Relationship Concepts

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Aug. 31, 2024

Differentiation: Practice the Pause

Differentiation: Practice the Pause

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Aug. 30, 2024

Others' Attacks Are About Them. Not You.

Others' Attacks Are About Them. Not You.

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Aug. 29, 2024

Differentiation: You Pause Because You're Okay

Differentiation: You Pause Because You're Okay

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Aug. 28, 2024

Differentiation: Calm Heart, Quiet Mind

Differentiation: Calm Heart, Quiet Mind

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Aug. 28, 2024

Differentiated Relationship

Differentiated Relationship

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Aug. 26, 2024

You're Not Anxious, You Feel Anxious

You're Not Anxious, You Feel Anxious

#shorts #anxietyhealing #anxietyrelief #anxietytips #anxious #anxiety

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Aug. 24, 2024

Are You Turning Red Flags Green? *NEW EPISODE*

Are You Turning Red Flags Green? *NEW EPISODE*

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Aug. 24, 2024

Therapist's & Daughter LIVE 28

Therapist's & Daughter LIVE 28

Please enjoy this uncut LIVE Therapist's Q&A from 8/24 on the Virtual Couch TikTok! Join us in our next livestream to decide where the episode goes; we'd love to talk to you! We discuss all things therapy, relationship advice, anxiety, depression, mental health, meditation, narcissism, ADHD, OCD, anxiety, religious scrupulosity,…

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Aug. 23, 2024

A Narcissist's Magic Trick: Gaslighting

A Narcissist's Magic Trick: Gaslighting

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Aug. 23, 2024

A Narcissist's Mask: The False Self

A Narcissist's Mask: The False Self

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Aug. 22, 2024

Can Gaslighting Cause CPTSD?

Can Gaslighting Cause CPTSD?

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Aug. 21, 2024

Gaslighting: Are You Lying To Yourself? *NEW EPISODE*

Gaslighting: Are You Lying To Yourself? *NEW EPISODE*

#shorts #gaslight #gaslighter #gaslightingawareness #therapy #therapist

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Aug. 21, 2024

Gaslighting's Greatest Hits: The Top Lies You Believed About Yourself

Gaslighting's Greatest Hits: The Top Lies You Believed About Yourself

Have you ever felt like you were constantly walking on eggshells, desperately trying to prove your worth in a relationship, only to realize later you were never the problem to begin with? Tony dives deep into the murky waters of gaslighting and narcissism, exploring how these manipulative behaviors can distort…

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Aug. 21, 2024

Uncomfortable Is Healing: 'It Ends With Us' Meets Therapy

Uncomfortable Is Healing: 'It Ends With Us' Meets Therapy

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Aug. 19, 2024

Therapist vs. It Ends With Us Controversy *NEW EPISODE*

Therapist vs. It Ends With Us Controversy *NEW EPISODE*

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Aug. 19, 2024

Therapist on 'It Ends With Us' Backlash, Love Bombing, Trauma Bonds & Narcissism Q&A LIVE 27

Therapist on 'It Ends With Us' Backlash, Love Bombing, Trauma Bonds & Narcissism Q&A LIVE 27

Hey everyone! In this Live episode, I, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and my daughter answer your questions and discuss the recent controversy surrounding the movie/novel 'This Ends With Us' and its portrayal of DV. We'll also discuss the elements of love bombing, trauma bonding, and the emotional immaturity…

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