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Episode 371 of Tony Overbay, LMFT’s The Virtual Couch Podcast - Let's talk about S to the E-X, aka "intimacy." Dan Purcell, host of the "Get Your Marriage On" podcast as well as the "Intimately Us" app https://r.intimately.us/tonyoverbay joins Tony to talk about the mission that he, along with his…

Alexa (Overbay) Lovell survived a near-fatal accident a little over one year ago. She dives into the details of what the past year has been like, including recovery setbacks, unrealistic expectations, continued frustrations, the reality of potential addiction to pain medications, what the future looks like regarding having children, and…

Episode 65 of Waking Up to Narcissism Podcast hosted by Tony Overbay, LMFT. Author Dana Killion joins Tony to discuss her memoir “Where the Shadows Dance,” available for pre-order at https://amzn.to/3yR0gIp Dana’s story is born of a life in turmoil and her husband’s addiction, a situation where the only way…

Murder on the Couch - True Crime Meets Therapy, is coming soon to YouTube, as well as a podcast player near you! Hit the subscribe button now or go to https://www.tonyoverbay.com/contact/ and sign up for the newsletter to learn more about the latest podcast from The Virtual Couch Podcast Network.…

Waking Up to Narcissism Podcast Episode 59 - Tony Overbay, LMFT shares the 4th installment in the "Death By a Thousand Cuts" series. He gives examples of how being in a relationship with a narcissist or extremely emotionally immature person can feel like "death by a thousand cuts." All of…

Tony shares questions and answers from his forum for women in relationships with narcissistic or emotionally immature people. The questions deal with narcissistic family systems, whether or not to "confront" or air out the narcissist's drama to the entire family. Two forum members share their "aha" moments, one bringing more…

Virtual Couch Podcast Episode 361 - Tony Overbay, LMFT, welcomes Camila Smith, LCSW, to the Virtual Couch. Camila is a psychotherapist, educator, and the Chief Clinical Officer of Bekome (http://joinbekome.co). Camila specializes in gut health, with an advanced doctoral focus in mental health and clinical nutrition. Tony and Camila talk…

Waking Up to Narcissism Podcast Episode 56 - Tony Overbay LMFT, host of “The Virtual Couch,” podcast interviews Ashlee Boyson (formerly Ashlee Birk, or Ashlee Corrigan). Ashlee is an author, trauma survivor, and victim advocate. In 2011 Ashlee’s life changed forever when her husband’s murder revealed his secret life. Ashlee’s…

Tony Overbay, LMFT, and host of The Virtual Couch Podcast, tackles the question he receives the most from listeners, should I stay or should I go? And if I decide to go, when? Plus he discusses what the training of ordinary mice to go through mazes can tell us about…

The Virtual Couch Podcast Episode 358 - Tony Overbay, LMFT shares new information from a recent speaking event addressing the challenges of navigating a faith journey. He talks about how difficult it is to understand any experience in life until you have gone through something similar; how hard-wired we are…

In this sneak preview of the upcoming "Murder on the Couch" podcast, Sydney describes Jeffrey Dahmer's first murder and, in the process, confesses getting pulled over to her therapist father, Tony. Hit the subscribe button now or go to https://www.tonyoverbay.com/contact/ and sign up for the newsletter to learn more about…

See the title; it kind of says it all. I created this video in response to someone asking my opinion on how to share a podcast, a video, a book, or an article with somebody that they truly cared about with the hopes that the person won't take offense. PS…

Episode 344 of The Virtual Couch Podcast hosted by Tony Overbay, LMFT. Tony welcomes Preston Pugmire to the Virtual Couch. Preston is the host of the Next Level Life podcast, an award-winning life coach, and co-creator of The Magnetic Marriage couples communication course. Preston joins Tony to discuss the importance…

Waking Up to Narcissism Podcast Episode 39 with Tony Overbay, LMFT. Is there such a thing as a "nice narcissist?" Or are they on par with other mythical creatures like Bigfoot and the Loch Ness Monster? Tony goes on a deep dive into Dr. Elinor Greenberg's article "White Knight &…

Virtual Couch Podcast Episode 339 - Host Tony Overbay, LMFT, interviews Monica Tanner, the host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, to talk about the secrets of achieving "happily ever after" in your marriage. They cover parenting, tension, physical and emotional intimacy, narcissism, and why being intentional with…

Full Episode of Tony Overbay's The Virtual Couch Episoe 333: Tony Overbay, LMFT, interviews Alana and Luke Gordon on The Virtual Couch Podcast. From the Virtual Couch Episode 333: "Alana and Luke Gordon On Navigating Betrayal Trauma - Love, Honesty and Control (You Can Only Pick 2)" Alana Gordon and…

Tony Overbay, LMFT, interviews Alana and Luke Gordon on The Virtual Couch Podcast. From the Virtual Couch Episode 333: "Alana and Luke Gordon On Navigating Betrayal Trauma - Love, Honesty and Control (You Can Only Pick 2)" Alana Gordon and her husband Luke share their story of the highs and…

Tony Overbay, LMFT and host of the Waking up to Narcissism and Virtual Couch podcasts, discusses the role of "implicit" memory when waking up to the emotional immaturity, or narcissism, in your relationships. One of the first questions he is asked is, "what do I do now that I am…

Episode 332 of Tony Overbay, LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast - Tony talks about his "aha" moment when attending a wedding over the past weekend of why marriages begin with a lot of pressure and unrealized expectations that originate from each person's family history. Then he shares Russ Harris's 4…

Episode 331 of Tony Overbay LMFT’s The Virtual Couch Podcast - Does it really matter what you do throughout the day concerning your mental health? Tony tackles the impact of implicit memory and how the "flow of experience gradually sculpts your brain, thus shaping your mind" from the book "Buddha's…

Episode 37 of the Waking Up to Narcissism Podcast by Tony Overbay, LMFT. Explaining your relationship to the narcissist or emotionally immature person, people, or entity in your life to those around you can be incredibly validating when it's met with empathy, curiosity, and understanding. But, when you open up…

A clip from Episode 38 of Tony Overbay, LMFT's "Waking up to Narcissism" podcast. In this Q & A episode, Tony was answering a question about someone re-entering the dating world. The person asking the question was concerned that their "picker" was broken, and they asked the question of how…

Tony Overbay LMFT's Virtual Couch Podcast Episode 327 - Creating Intimacy vs. Seeking Validation in Marriage, Exploring our “Shadows” and Narcissism or Emotional Immaturity w/ Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife makes her 4th appearance on the Virtual Couch podcast! Tony and Jennifer discuss the difference between coaching and therapy.…