Videos

April 17, 2020

Sleep Or Stress, Which Came First? Tips to Lowering Cortisol Levels for Better Sleep

Tony Overbay LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast Episode 196 - Day is night, night is day! For most of us, we need a bit of a reason to get out of bed in the morning, whether it's heading to a job, getting the kids ready for school, or to head…

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April 7, 2020

Couples Communication Tune Up Time! More Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples

Tony Overbay LMFT's Virtual Couch Podcast episode 195 - As we continue to shelter in place, quarantine, spend more time in closed quarters with our loved ones, the need for productive communication is even more important. That's why Tony felt it imperative to dust off the basics of psychologist Sue…

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March 31, 2020

It's Going To Be OK! Managing Worry and Doubt Around COVID-19 And During Distressing Times!

If you're human, you've experienced worry. But sometimes it can be more difficult than others to set those worries aside and continue doing what you need to do to move ahead in your life. In today's episode, Tony discusses the article "I'm a psychologist, and these are my top 8…

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March 31, 2020

Tips for Parenting Positively During the Not So Positive of Times - A Free Parenting Course

Sign up for your FREE parenting course today! https://www.tonyoverbay.com/courses/ Tony Overbay, LMFT and host of The Virtual Couch Podcast, offers you a free "virtual session" to help you improve your parenting today. In this free course, you'll learn why it can be so difficult to parent kids of any age…

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March 25, 2020

The Virtual Couch Ep193 - The Invisible Gorilla And Other Fascinating Psychological Experiments

Tony Overbay, LMFT presents episode 193 of The Virtual Couch Podcast. Can memories be implanted? What would you do if smoke began billowing from underneath a door and everyone around you acted like nothing unusual was happening? And could you spot a gorilla running across the screen while you were…

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March 20, 2020

Decreasing Anxiety During Anxious Times Tony Overbay, LMFT Interviews Dr. Mary Wilde

Dr. Mary Wilde is a board-certified pediatrician, author, and mother of 8 who spends a lot of her time helping people decrease anxiety during anxious times. It’s fair to say that with the continuing information regarding COVID-19 coming from all angles these are truly anxious times. So what can you…

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March 16, 2020

Do I Really Need More TP or Bottled Water? Aka "If Everybody Else is Doing it, Shouldn't I?"

Episode 191 of Tony Overbay LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast. With things changing rapidly thanks to the spread of COVID-19 and the Coronavirus, it is becoming increasingly more difficult to know exactly what to do, how to do it, and for how long? But one thing that remains a constant…

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March 10, 2020

Coronavirus Rule #1...Don't Touch Your Face! Why Can't You NOW Stop Touching Your Face?

Episode 190 of Tony Overbay LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast. With the continued information about the coronavirus coming in almost by the minute, two things have remained consistent...wash your hands long enough to sing the ABC song AND don't touch your face! But for most, simply telling one to not…

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March 5, 2020

Living with a Narcissistic Parent - Tina Fuller, Author of "It's My Turn"

Tony Overbay LMFT's Virtual Couch Podcast Episode 189 - Living with a Narcissistic Parent - Tina Fuller, Author of "It's My Turn" Author Tina Fuller joins Tony to talk about her book "It's My Turn" https://amzn.to/2ImIMtk which details her experiences in growing up with a narcissistic mother. The interview covers…

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March 4, 2020

Psychological Reactance...You Don't Need to Listen To This Episode... I Wouldn't If I Were You!

Episode 188 of Tony Overbay, LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast - Simply put, psychological reactance is the instantaneous response that we have when we're told what to do. In business it is often called "change resistance" and in parenting, it's typically referred to as, well, "kids!" Reactance can also be…

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Feb. 28, 2020

Treating Trauma With Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) W/Lora Abraham, LCSW

Episode 186 of the Virtual Couch Podcast hosted by Tony Overbay, LMFT. Lora Abraham, LCSW and a former high school classmate of Tony's uses EMDR to treat clients who present with a variety of types of trauma. What is EMDR? From the EMDR Institute: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)…

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Feb. 27, 2020

What If Trying to Choose To Be Happy Isn't Working?

Episode 183 of Tony Overbay's The Virtual Couch podcast. Plenty of well-meaning people in our lives try and motivate us by saying, "Just choose to be happy every day!" But why, then, isn't it that easy? Why when many people try and choose to be happy, do they actually end…

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Feb. 27, 2020

Ginger Elizabeth Hahn on Roadblocks, Postpartum Depression Fighting Childhood Cancer w/St. Baldricks

When Ginger Hahn, the founder of Ginger Elizabeth Chocolates' daughter was only 6 days old she had an intestinal bypass. According to Ginger, "It was the worst 2 weeks of my life in that hospital. Walking to the cafeteria every day I would walk past the oncology pediatrics wing at…

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Feb. 17, 2020

Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) In Emotionally Abusive/Distant Relationships

Episode 184 of Tony Overbay's The Virtual Couch Podcast. Many of us know what Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is, and we associate it with people who have come back from war, or who have experienced traumatic events, or accidents. Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder or C-PTSD is a type of PTSD…

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Feb. 11, 2020

All or Nothing, or Black or White Thinking...Which One Do You Always or Never Do?

Episode 182 of Tony Overbay, LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast. All or nothing...He’s ALWAYS late! She NEVER asks me about my day. The kids will absolutely never, ever, no matter what I say pick up after themselves (OK, that one might actually be true). Do you always find yourself using…

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Feb. 4, 2020

Where To Begin Today To Drive Change...4 ACT Sessions in One Podcast!

Episode 181 of Tony Overbay, LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast. In Dr. Steven Hayes’ book A Liberated Mind, How to Pivot Toward What Matters https://amzn.to/34w72BT Dr. Hayes shares some research that shows how quickly you can begin making progress using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). The study evaluated how ACT…

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Jan. 28, 2020

Dr. Shelly Hoover, Author of Timeless Sisters, ALS Advocate, On Making the Most of Every Moment

In episode 180 of Tony Overbay's The Virtual Couch Podcast, Tony interviews Dr. Shelly Hoover. Dr. Hoover is a wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and friend. She’s a veteran, author, educator, and advocate. It’s what she does. It’s who she is. In 2013, her neurologist told her that she only…

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Jan. 22, 2020

How to Talk to Our Kids About Positive Body Image - Tony Overbay, LMFT at the iBody Conference

I recently had the privilege of being asked to be a part of the iBody panel held at Freeflow Academy in Rocklin, CA. The panel consisted of people who had incredible stories of hardship, addiction, struggle, acceptance, and survival. But these panelists not only survived, they learned to thrive, and…

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Jan. 20, 2020

How You Feeling? Understanding Primary and Secondary Emotions - Virtual Couch Podcast Episode 178

Tony Overbay LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast Episode 178 available on Apple Podcasts, The Google Play Store, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. Have you ever been scared by a friend? Chances are your first, or primary emotion, was fear! That's perfectly normal, after all, you're human. But what…

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Jan. 13, 2020

How Complaining Physically Rewires Your Brain, And What To Do About It

Tony Overbay, LMFTs Virtual Couch Podcast episode 176. In today's episode, Tony tackles the popular article "How Complaining Physically Rewires Your Brain To Be Anxious And Depressed," from the Daily Health Post https://dailyhealthpost.com/complaining-brain-negativity/ - Tony will be speaking in the Midvale North Stake on Sunday, January 26th in Midvale, UT.…

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Jan. 7, 2020

The Greater Your Storm The Brighter Your Rainbow w/Social Media Influencer Allison Carlson

Episode 175 of Tony Overbay, LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast - Allison Carlson (IG: @allisonbailey1) is more than a social media content creator, aka an “influencer,” she is also a wife, a future doula, a woman who has suffered through multiple difficult miscarriages, a survivor of betrayal, anxiety, depression and…

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Dec. 30, 2019

Resolutions That Will Stick, No Really! Acceptance & Commitment Therapy Plus Resolutions = Success!!

It’s New Year’s Resolution time! Does setting resolutions, or even talking about resolutions, in general, bring feelings of fear, or excitement? In this episode, I weave acceptance and commitment therapy into 5 evidence-based ways to make your resolutions stick once and for all! Learn how your values must drive your…

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Dec. 26, 2019

Cha, Cha, Changes! The Transtheoretical, or Stages of Change Model, 6 Steps to Lasting Change!

Tony Overbay LMFT's The Virtual Couch Podcast episode 173 - Cha, Cha, Changes! The Transtheoretical, or Stages of Change Model, 6 Steps to Lasting Change! Tony talks stages of change using the Transtheoretical, or Stages of Change Model referencing an article by Kendra Cherry https://www.verywellmind.com/the-stages-of-change-2794868 Discover the 6 stages of…

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Dec. 23, 2019

A Liberated Mind! What You Need to Start 2020 Strong! 6 Principals of ACT by Dr. Steven Hayes

Episode 172 of Tony Overbay, LMFT's The Virtual Couch podcast. In this episode, Tony shares his excitement over one of the founders of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dr. Steven Hayes' new book A Liberated Mind, How to Pivot Toward What Matters https://amzn.to/34w72BT Tony reviews Dr. Hayes 6 key "pivots" of…

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